Lydia Howe was born circa 1774 in Marlborough, Middlesex County, Massachusetts to Asa Howe (1733-1793) and Rachel Goddard (1732-1814) and died circa 1820 Massachusetts of unspecified causes. She married Gilbert Howe (1770-1849) 25 February 1800 in Marlborough, Middlesex County, Massachusetts.
Siblings
| Name | Birth | Death | Joined with |
| John Howe (1762-1830) | |||
| Miriam Howe (1765-1814) | 11 September 1765 Marlborough, Middlesex County, Massachusetts, United States | 10 June 1814 Alstead, Cheshire County, New Hampshire, United States | Joseph Clisbee (1762-1832) |
| Lucy Howe (1767-) | |||
| Asa Howe (1768-1834) | |||
| Abraham Howe (1770-1818) | |||
| Esther Howe (1772-) | |||
| Lydia Howe (1774-1820) | 1774 Marlborough, Middlesex County, Massachusetts | 1820 Massachusetts | Gilbert Howe (1770-1849) |
| Molly Howe (1776-) | |||
| Abigail Howe (1764-1830) | |||